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# Lifechanging moments
- URL: https://becomingjj.com/lifechanging-moments/
- Published: 2009-04-20T21:37:00.000Z
- Updated: 2026-05-22T01:33:55.000Z
- Author: JJ Celery
- Tags: Personal, #Import 2026-10-23 23:23

I knew a man once who laughed after sex.

I remember thinking “You’ve got to be kidding me!” I went a long way and broke every rule in the book to get there and the man I’ve been dreaming of for years is... laughing?

You got to be kidding.

By a strange coincidence, our relationship fell apart over a few lies, few fears and disagreements in the kitchen just weeks later. It also happened to be the moment when I decided I will go to Ireland after all.

Most probably my life would look completely different if he wouldn’t have had laughed.